feat/cleanup: some january updates

- do not commit lock files
- add script connection to waybar (script not yet in this repo)
- delay some loading in nvim
- update niri to use swaylock and swayidle
- add some niri windowrules for default window widths
- update paru to offer choice for what to update

.config/nvim/lua/plugins/telescope.lua

@@ -1,7 +1,6 @@
 return {
 	{
 		"nvim-telescope/telescope.nvim",
-		tag = "0.1.2",
 		lazy = true,
 		keys = {
 			{ "<leader><leader>", mode = { "n" }, "<cmd>Telescope smart_open<cr>", desc = "smart_open" },
@@ -72,6 +71,7 @@ return {
 	-- faster and better matching than fzf
 	{
 		"nvim-telescope/telescope-fzy-native.nvim",
+		event = "VeryLazy",
 		config = function() require("telescope").load_extension("fzy_native") end,
 	},
 	{ "kkharji/sqlite.lua", lazy = true },