feat/cleanup: some january updates

- do not commit lock files
- add script connection to waybar (script not yet in this repo)
- delay some loading in nvim
- update niri to use swaylock and swayidle
- add some niri windowrules for default window widths
- update paru to offer choice for what to update

.config/niri/config.kdl

@@ -1,5 +1,7 @@
 spawn-at-startup "waybar"
 spawn-sh-at-startup "swaybg -m fit -i ~/Pictures/backgrounds/hibiscus-flowers-5k-5120x2880-16240.jpg"
+spawn-sh-at-startup "swaydidle -w -C ~/.config/swayidle.conf"
+spawn-sh-at-startup "amixer set 'Mic Boost (+20dB)' on"
 spawn-at-startup "dunst"
 spawn-at-startup "kwalletd6"
 spawn-at-startup "polkit-kde-authentication-agent-1"
@@ -127,7 +129,7 @@ layout {
 	}
 
     // You can change the default width of the new windows.
-    default-column-width { proportion 0.667; }
+    default-column-width { proportion 0.5; }
     // If you leave the brackets empty, the windows themselves will decide their initial width.
     // default-column-width {}